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A Kenyan lady turned to netizens for advice over her lover's relationship with his ex-girlfriend.
In an anonymous post on Reddit, the lady shared her relationship woes.
According to her post, her boyfriend had been spending a considerable amount of money on his ex, covering her bills and attending to her every need.
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Despite claiming to be simply helping her out in a time of crisis, his actions were raising red flags.
The woman revealed that her boyfriend's support extended far beyond the occasional financial aid; he was covering all her living expenses, including transportation, medical bills, food, and even building her a new house.
The constant communication between the two, under the guise of coordinating financial support, only added to her growing discomfort.
Initially, she accepted her boyfriend's explanation that he was being a good Samaritan, helping someone in need.
However, as the support continued without signs of stopping, she began to question whether there was more to their relationship than he was letting on.
Her concerns were heightened by the frequency of their phone calls, even though they didn't seem overly affectionate or romantic.
In her Reddit post, she shared her growing frustration, feeling her boyfriend's priorities might not align with hers. She wrote:
She wrote:
"My boyfriend broke up with his ex 3 years ago, and they haven’t spoken much since. Recently the ex has become in need of financial help because whoever was helping her before can no longer help. So now my boyfriend is paying for everything. That’s transport, medical care, and food, and he’s even building her a new house. And they speak on the phone because of this. I’ve never heard them say anything romantic or overly friendly on the phone but they do talk."
"She calls for money, he picks up and sends what is needed. He even makes sure she has the best doctors if she needs it. Am I stupid or something? They clearly aren’t over each other but he keeps giving excuses like 'she has nobody else!' 'Her family keep using her' 'she wouldn’t be able to afford hospital care without me'."
"I brushed it off before and was actually convinced to feel sorry for her but now it’s driving me nuts! He’s either obsessed with people needing him or I’m just plain dumb and letting this happen right under my nose."
Elsewhere, a woman who has been in a relationship for over a year recently came out to complain about her partner's looks.
The lady from Nevada, in the United States, noted that her man has all the green flags she wants in a partner, but she cannot imagine spending the rest of her life with someone who looks like him.
The unidentified lady aired her frustrations, published by the New York Post, where she noted she was conflicted between fighting for her relationship and moving on.
Proofreading by Asher Omondi, current affairs journalist and copy editor at TUKO.co.ke.
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